My time is not free. A sentiment all freelancers, bloggers, and self-employed people feel deeply. It’s deeply ingrained that time is money, and when you live by that saying it’s really hard to switch off. As such, you’d expect that those in a similar position to yourself - a freelancer, self-employed person, or sex worker, would understand that whilst you should not only pay for your porn, you should also pay for a fellow professionals' time.