Bookshelf

As well as owning a million and one sex toys, I also possess several erotic texts, guides, and books on sex and sex work. Once I’ve gotten through my backlog of sex toy reviews, I’ll start writing reviews of the books below, rate how accessible they are (are the tips useful for someone with a disability) and even try out the tips mentioned. Once a book has been reviewed, I will link the review to the book below!

Please note that I do not endorse a book simply because I own it. A few of the books I own are for reference (50 Shades of Grey), some are because they were cheap (mostly erotica), and some are to broaden my knowledge and to look at conflicts of opinion. I like to think that my content is well-rounded and can help people unlearn toxic information because I’m passionate about learning, reading, and dissecting all types of viewpoints – especially if they’re egregiously wrong.

Here’s the ever-growing list of books I own, though it is a few years out of date at the moment.

Sex and Sensuality

  • The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature by Matt Ridley
  • Vagina: A New Biography by Naomi Wolf
  • Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha
  • The World of Sex by Henry Miller 
  • Sexuality, A Very Short Introduction by Veronique Mottier 
  • Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson
  • Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science & Sex by Mary Roach
  • Enjoy Sex (How, when and if you want to): A Practical and Inclusive Guide by Dr Meg-John Barker, and Justin Hancock
  • She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner 
  • The Sex Myth: Why Everything We’re Told Is Wrong by Dr Brooke Magnanti
  • Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
  • A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells Us about Sexual Relationships by Ogi Ogas
  • Ethics and Sex by Igor Primoratz
  • The Birth of the Pill: How Four Pioneers Reinvented Sex and Launched a Revolution by Jonathan Eig
  • The Sex Book by Suzi Godson, Mel Agace, Robert M.L. Winston
  • Sexuality and Gender for Mental Health Professionals by Christina Richards and Meg John Barker
  • The Psychology of Human Sexuality by Justin J. Lehmiller
  • Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction by Gary Wilson and Anthony Jack
  • Doing It Let’s Talk About Sex by Hannah Witton
  • The Origins of Sex: A History of the First Sexual Revolution
  • Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon
  • Witches, Sluts, Feminists: Conjuring the Sex Positive by Kristen J. Sollee
  • The Psychology of Sex by Meg-John Barker
  • Holy Sexuality and the Gospel: Sex, Desire, and Relationships Shaped by God’s Grand Story by Christopher Yuan
  • Sexuality: A History of Human Sexuality from Ancient Greece to the Modern Age (All you need to know) by Charlotte McGann

Health

  • Ask Me About My Uterus: A Quest to Make Doctors Believe in Women’s Pain by Abby Norman
  • The Science of Love and Betrayal

Sex and Disability

  • Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness Paperback by M.D., Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette Miriam Kaufman
  • Sex and Disability Robert McRuer, Anna Mollow

BDSM, FemDom and Fetish

  • Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation by Princess Kali
  • Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon
  • SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
  • The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton
  • The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
  • The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino
  • The Toybag Guide Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies by Jay Wiseman 
  • S and M: Studies in Dominance and Submission Paperback by Thomas S. Weinberg
  • BDSM 101 by Rev. Jen 
  • Fetishes: Webster’s Quotations, Facts and Phrases by Icon Group International
  • Fetish: An Erotics of Culture by Henry Krips
  • Fetish: A Visual Directory of Terms, Roles and Equipment by David Bramwell, Petra Joy
  • Beginner’s Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women
  • BDSM and Fetish: Things I’ve learned from the lifestyle. By A.M.M Chateau
  • Male Chastity: A Guide for Key-holders
  • The Mistress Manual by Mistress Lorelie
  • Family Jewels by Hardy Haberman
  • A KeyHolder’s Handbook: A Woman’s Guide To Male Chastity by Georgia Ivey Green

Erotica

  • The Boss series by Abigail Barnette
  • My Not-So-Shameful Sex Secrets by Girl on the Net
  • Girl on the Net: How a bad girl fell in love by Girl on the Net
  • The Marketplace series by Laura Antoniou
  • Identity: An Eroticon Anthology
  • The FemDom Diaries by Mistress Darcy
  • An Appointment with Her Master by Portia Da Costa
  • The Darkness Within Him (Untwisted Series)
  • The Silver Chain (Unbreakable Trilogy, Book 1)
  • Wanted: Most Wanted Book 1
  • Trust Game (The Casteel Trust Series Book ) by Scarlet Wolfe
  • Master Black: A billionaire SEAL Story (In The Shadows, Book 1)
  • Fifty Shades of Great, Book 1 by EL James
  • Justine (Pink Lady)
  • At Any Price (Adam and Mia Book 1) (Gaming the System)
  • Nobody’s Angel (Book 2 in a Military Romance/BDSM saga)
  • Master sat Arms (Introduction to the Rescue Me Saga)
  • Billionaire Kink by Virginia Wade
  • Out of The Shadows by Santa Holland
  • Best Women’s Erotica of the Year Volume 1 by Rachel Kramer Bushel
  • Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories by Rachel Kramer Bussel
  • Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica by Rachel Kramer Bushel

Hypnotherapy

  • Scripts and Strategies in Hypnotherapy: The Complete Works by Roger P. Allen
  • The Art of Hypnosis by C. Roy Hunter
  • The Instant Hypnosis and Rapid Inductions Guidebook by Rory Z Fulcher
  • The Beginner’s Guide to Hypnotherapy by Rory Z Fulcher
  • Richard Nongard’s Big Book of Hypnosis Scripts by Richard K. Nongard
  • Creative Scripts for Hypnotherapy by Marlene E. Hunter

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