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    Respect our boundaries, pay our fees. Don’t ask us to watch you wank for free.

    My time is not free. A sentiment all freelancers, bloggers, and self-employed people feel deeply. It’s deeply ingrained that time is money, and when you live by that saying it’s really hard to switch off. As such, you’d expect that those in a similar position to yourself - a freelancer, self-employed person, or sex worker, would understand that whilst you should not only pay for your porn, you should also pay for a fellow professionals' time.

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    The impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill.

    The impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill. This post was originally published in 2018. SESTA, FOSTA, The DE Bill have decimated my love for my job, and I hate it. Just like I regained my sexuality, working this past month, and listening to podcasts have reignited my love for my job. I love sex work, but people don’t love sex workers. I’m working on a post about the impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill as a whole, but for now, as requested from a lovely Patreon, this is how the impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill has impacted me. I’m scared about my financial future.…

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    Are cam models sex workers? 

    Are cam models sex workers?  Buckle in, I have a whole lot of thoughts about this question. I won’t pinpoint to the exact origin of this question, because it’s beside the point. However, the reason I bring it up is that’s it’s a question I’ve seen asked time and time again – in various forms. The question boils down to whether or not cam models/clip makers/online Dominatrixes etc., are sex workers. There are a lot of arguments as to whether the answer is yes, or no. In fact, there are so many arguments that I could probably write an entire dissertation exploring them, and maybe one day I will.  First,…

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    Why Pay For Porn?

    Why Pay For Porn? Dylan Wolfe I watch a lot of porn. I don’t buy a lot of porn, but I wouldn’t even want to guess how many hours worth I’ve enjoyed over the years. Why pay for porn when I know how to find it for free? For the most part, my tastes tend to veer towards BDSM porn, specifically FemDom videos. I think I had this idea in my head about the types of people who made these videos; that they’re all ‘Lifestyle Dommes’ who own their own dungeons, and chances are if there wasn’t a camera there they’d be doing all that stuff anyway. Hell, these people were…

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    MoonyVids I’ll give you 10 seconds to guess where this is going. Moon, vids … MoonyVids! I hear you groaning, and not from sexual release. The plan: “to alleviate the alienation and isolation of space travel.” If like me, you still can’t quite wrap your head around why this is happening, here’s a little more content from Bella French ManyVids model, and CEO: “We’d like to make this fantastic voyage as pleasurable as possible for everyone and what better way to alleviate the stress and loneliness than with full access to the over half a million clips on the ManyVids platform, or to interact in real time with one of our…